What can I do to stop having pain during sex? What could be the cause?

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Hello! For about a year now, I often have pain at the entrance of my vagina during sex with my boyfriend. Sometimes I bleed a little bit (I've been watching and I feel like I have a little crack at the entrance towards my butt). I am always naturally lubricated (or if not we use lube). I have the impression that the rubbing forms a small crack and it is this crack that hurts when rubbing. No, it often happens at the beginning of the relationship... Yes it can also happen with the use of a condom and we use a water-based lubricant.

Naji-tom Samaha · Accepted Answer

Hi, ma'am, Have you noticed that it depends on the length or intensity of the relationship? Does it happen with the use of a condom as well? What lubricant do you use? Thanks for the information! Unfortunately, pain or discomfort can occur during or shortly after intercourse without necessarily indicating a problem. I would suggest that intercourse should be avoided as long as the fissure is present to give the area a chance to heal. A moisturizer such as Replens can be applied as needed to promote healing. Otherwise, I suggest avoiding any type of soap, cleanser or douching, water is sufficient. If it persists for more than 4 weeks without improvement, you should consult a doctor. I will remain available if you have any other questions! Tom Samaha, pharmacist